Who always want sex? Of course men! Right? That's a common misunderstanding and it's based on the mistaken belief that men are wired to want sex. Understanding your male sexual partner is as important as his willingness to have sex. Before going to the store and deciding to buy Cialis for your man, read the list of common reasons why men may not want sex:
Medications: Antidepressants (SSRI-type) and anti hypertensives (blood pressure medication) are often the culprit when a man has a lowered interest in sexual activity. These can also cause sexual dysfunction.
Hormonal levels: The most important physiological stimulant of sexual desire is testosterone. This information might be interesting to know, to have a full picture of a man's hormonal levels, knowing the free testosterone level is much more relevant to how much sex he desires. Also, too much prolactin and SHBG (sex hormone binding globulin) can suppress sexual desire. So when a hormonal reason is suspected, these are the blood tests to have (in order of importance): free testosterone, prolactin, SHBG, and total testosterone.
Turn-off to aspects of the sex: Lack of fulfillment can be related to specific things that his partner does during sex or how he experiences his partner's body. He may feel criticized or treated unfairly. He may have sexual interests that he knows or fears his partner may not share.
Disagreements with one's mate: When there are interpersonal difficulties between the members of a couple, some men punish their partner by withholding sex, but for others, they just cannot muster sexual feelings when there are unresolved conflicts.
Masturbation that replaces partnered sex: Male masturbation is a hot topic since the advent of the Internet. It seems to some researchers in this field that many men have found their way to locate sexual imagery online. When the viewing of the images leads to masturbation and then leads to less partnered sex. Less partnered sex feels like a blessing to some, but to others it is a frustrating and disappointing outcome.
Stress: Stress comes in many forms and may stem from: financial difficulties, personal or family member illness, challenges at work, parenting dilemmas, and issues involving extended family members. Of course, there are many more sources of stress.
Difficulties in sexual functioning: Many men, who have erection dysfunction or believe that they have ejaculatory problems, will avoid having sex with their partner. Rather than face what feels like another experience of "failure" in our performance-obsessed culture, these men choose to avoid being sexual at all. In such cases if your doctor recommends, you can order cialis or any other ED pill as per the prescription for your husband.
When partnered with a man who does not want sex, the optimal path does not include criticism, belittling, or slurs on his manhood. Armed with accurate information and professional help, most of these causes of sexual avoidance can be greatly improved and in many cases removed altogether. So, if you love your man, you know what to do.... right?
